人生的路上

人生的路上，
我们都在奔跑，
我们总在赶超一些人，
也总在被一些人超越。


人生的要义，
一是欣赏沿途的风景，
二是抵达遥远的终点；


人生的秘诀，
寻找一种最适合自己的速度，
莫因疾进而不堪重荷，
莫因迟缓而空耗生命；


人生的快乐，
走自己的路，
看自己的景，
超越他人不得意，
他人超越不失志。

洗馬桶

現在很流行講 EQ (情緒商數)，聽說EQ高的人能夠有Anger Management 的能力 ，即是不會輕易大發雷霆。
一個婦女團體的分享經驗小組上，三位太太在交流心得。
陳太說：「每逢我老公使我生氣時，我就會閉上眼睛，深呼吸幾下，很有效的。」
李太說：「 每逢我老公使我生氣時，我會一言不發，跑出去買衫，也很有效。」
王太說：「每逢我老公使我生氣時，我會到洗手間，關上門洗擦馬桶。不止不再生氣，跟著幾天還很開心！」
陳太和李太很奇怪：「 洗馬桶有這麼神奇的功效嗎？」王太說：「那要看你怎樣洗.....」
「？？？」
王太說：「我是用那個衰佬的牙刷和面巾來洗擦的。」

<非诚勿扰>，乐嘉老师给男女生の格言

女孩应该懂的…

1、一个女人如果第一眼就让男人想到性，那么她是很失败的。

2、当你从床上下来那一刻，你在他心中就开始贬值了。如果你把一切都给了现在的男友，那么，除了老公这个称呼你还能留给你未来的丈夫?

3、一个女人的品位在于她身边站着一个怎样品位的男人。女人一生最成功的事情之一，便是选了一个对的男人。

4、一个男人爱你的时候，你往往会感动于细节，同样，一个男人不爱你了，你也可以从细节中来发现。

5、想了解一个男人的好坏，先去看他身边是一群怎样的朋友。

6、女人的友情来的快，去的也快。其实男女感情远没有你跟姐妹的感情可靠，所以，珍惜你们之间的友情吧。

7、把买化妆品的钱去买两本好书，漂亮的容颜固然可以让人眼前一亮，丰富的内涵却能让人经久不忘。

8、虚伪的男人总倾向于喜欢你的容貌，真正的男人总倾向于爱你的内心。

9、男人没有你想象的那样好，可以真爱，但不要深爱，在爱情里为自己留个退路，否则受伤时会措手不及。

10、不要相信男人的甜言蜜语，面对喜欢的女孩时，不认识字的男人也会变成一个诗人。而诗人本来就不生活在现实中。

11、去发现一个有潜力的男人，往往比去傍大款更切合实际。并且你会更有成就感。

12、随时预防遇到色狼。必要时向他胯下踢，用力程度自己把握。

13、这个世界上，最值得你爱的，除了父母，只有你自己。

14、爱情不是追来的，所以，永远不要认为被男孩追是理所当然的。但是，你对他的考验是必须的。

15、当一个清高的女孩遇到一个高傲的男孩时，总有一个人会卑微下来，但是如果可以,不要把自己放得太低。

16、在爱情里，永远不要抱怨什么。

17、爱情，是需要用心经营的。恋爱也是一门艺术.


男孩应该懂的：

1、如果，你不能给她一个美好的未来，那么，请不要把她哄上床

2、不能做到的，就不要承诺。男人，膝下有黄金，嘴里也有黄金，不要轻易答应什么，因为你可能会食言

3、把她的地位放在游戏之上，毕竟她是那个肯能会陪你一辈子的人，游戏只是消遣罢了。。

4、你可以为了父母去教训自己的爱人，但是不能为了爱人去背弃自己的父母。如果她对你父母一直不好，那么她可以离开了。

5、如果不是生在帝王富贵家，那么找女朋友，不要只看重她的长相，而要学会欣赏她的内涵。你找伴侣，不是在找情人，而应该是在找妻子。。

6、一个成功的男人身边，需要一个相对优秀的女人。而这种优秀，与她的容貌无关，与她的内涵相连。

7、哥们，如果不擅长讨女孩欢心，那就去讨自己的未来欢心吧。男人，不是来征服女人的，而是来征服世界的。

8、你一生担负的责任很多，但最重要的是四个，对自己的父母负责，对自己的未来负责，对自己的女人和感情负责，对这个世界负责。

9、不要总想着玩弄感情，小心它有天会玩弄了你。

10、物以类聚，人以群分，这句话对男人很贴切。跟上进的人交朋友，跟有人生品位的人交朋友，你会获益很多。

11、这个世界上，最值得你爱的，除了父母，还有自己的女人和哥们，然后才是你自己。

12、爱情不是追来的。如果你死皮赖脸追求了很久，她却无动于衷，那么哥们，放下吧。有时，咱男人的尊严比一个女人更重要。

【智者与愚者的12个差距】

第1.学会尊重他人；
第2.不做无意义的争辩；
第3.说话不说破；
第4.学会随机应变；
第5.做个让人喜欢的人；
第6.关心他人，快乐自己；
第7.高效率做事；
第8.行动成就梦想；
第9.不钻生活牛角尖；
第10.信心是照亮成功的阳光；
第11.别和工作过不去；
第12.享受生活，享受快乐。

凡事皆要適可而止.....

一位少婦來到她的醫師的診所，少婦告訴醫生說：「我丈夫實在不擅長做愛，我們很久沒做愛了，請你給我一些建議。」

醫生說：「可以給他試一下這種春藥。今晚你給你給丈夫吃一粒，然後明天再回來告訴我發生了什麼事情。」

第二天，這位少婦來到了診所，對醫生說，這藥起作用了，她和她丈夫的性愛比任何時候都好。
她又問醫生，如果她給她丈夫吃上兩粒春藥會有什麼情況發生，醫生說她不知道，但可以試驗一下。

第三天，這位少婦又來了，她告訴醫生，比起前晚要『精彩』多了。
她又問，如果給她丈夫服下五粒春藥會有什麼情況發生，醫生說她不知道，但可以試驗一下。

第四天，這位少婦又來了，她告訴治療生：「我徹底愛上我老公了！」
她問醫生，如果把剩下的大半瓶春藥全部給她的丈夫服用，會有什麼情況發生？
醫生仍然說她不知道，因為從來沒有人試過。

這位少婦一聲不吭地離開了醫生的診所。
少婦回到家中，把剩下的春藥一股腦兒倒進了丈夫的咖啡杯中…………

一星期以後，一個小男孩來到了醫生的診所。
小男孩問道：「是你給我媽媽春藥的嗎？」
「是啊，小伙子，是我給的，怎麼了？」醫生回答道。


小男孩說：「這可好啊，我媽媽住院了，姐姐懷孕了，我屁股受傷了。爸爸還蹲在角落對著狗叫著：『來啊，小可愛…………』。」

若你安好，便是晴天

很多事，不是我想，就能做到的。

很多东西，不是我要，就能得到的。

很多人，不是我留，就能留住的。

你就像指缝间的阳光，温暖，美好，却永远无法抓住。

我行走在爱的荒漠，迷失了来时的路；

沿途的风景，我只能边走边忘。

不再挣扎，不再纠缠，我一个人也很好。


时光如水，总是无言。若你安好，便是晴天。

要学会坚强的微笑

不是眼泪就能挽回失去；不是所有人都值得你付出；
不是伤心就一定要哭泣；不是善良就可以受到庇佑；
不是所有表情都要写在脸上；
不是任何人都理解你。

所以，面对生活中偶尔的不如意，我们要学会坚强的微笑。
难过的时候，告诉自己：我很好、很开心；失落的时候，
笑着对自己说，没事的，一切总会过去。

只有敢于放弃，才会真正得到

只有敢于放弃，才会真正得到。
不是缺少爱情，而是缺少敢于为爱情买单的人。
现代人的爱情都很脆弱，誓言只是一块欲望的遮羞布。
在感情的世界里，没有谁比谁更高尚，只有谁比谁更真实。
男女那点事大都如此，要么你感到快乐，要么你感到痛苦，体会简单而深刻，爱恨分明，一点都不含糊

男生们，你们会如此牺牲自己吗？

有一对情侣，男的非常懦弱，
做什么事情之前都让女友先试。女友对此十分不满。
　　
一次，两人出海，返航时，飓风将小艇摧毁，
幸亏女友抓住了一块木板才保住了两人的性命。
... 女友问男友："你怕吗？"男友从怀中掏出一把水果刀，
说：怕，但有鲨鱼来，我就用这个对付它。"
女友只是摇头苦笑。

不久，一艘货轮发现了他们，
正当他们欣喜若狂时，一群鲨鱼出现了，
女友大叫：’我们一起用力游，会没事的！"
男友却突然用力将女友推进海里，
独立扒着木板朝货轮了，并喊道："这次我先试！"
女友惊呆了，望着男友的背影，感到非常绝望。
鲨鱼正在靠近，可对女友不感兴趣而径直向男友游去，
男友被鲨鱼凶猛地撕咬着，他发疯似地冲女友喊道："我爱你！"

女友获救了，甲板上的人都在默哀，船长坐到女友身边说
："小姐，他是我见过最勇敢的人。我们为他祈祷！"
"不，他是个胆小鬼。"女友冷冷地说。
"您怎么这样，当鲨鱼袭来的时候，你男朋友用刀子割破自己的手腕
。
鲨鱼对血腥味很敏感，如果他不这样做来争取时间，
恐怕你永远不会出现在这艘船上……"

10 Golden Lessons From Steve Jobs

““I think we’re having fun. I think our customers really like our products. And we’re always trying to do better.”

- Steve Jobs

His accomplishments and character helped define a generation and change the world. He is co-founder of the fairytale company we now know as Apple Computers. And he is the visionary of the personal computers world that led the entire computer hardware and software industry to restructure itself.



This man with boundless energy and charisma is also a master of hype, hyperbole and the catchy phrase. And even when he’s trying to talk normally, brilliant verbiage comes tumbling out.


Here’s a selection of some of the most insanely great things he said, golden lessons to help you succeed in life, Jobs-style:



“1. Steve Jobs said: “Innovation distinguishes between a leader and a follower.”




Innovation has no limits. The only limit is your imagination. It’s time for you to begin thinking out of the box. If you are involved in a growing industry, think of ways to become more efficient; more customer friendly; and easier to do business with. If you are involved in a shrinking industry – get out of it quick and change before you become obsolete; out of work; or out of business. And remember that procrastination is not an option here. Start innovating now!





2. Steve Jobs said: “Be a yardstick of quality. Some people aren’t used to an environment where excellence is expected.”



There is no shortcut to excellence. You will have to make the commitment to make excellence your priority. Use your talents, abilities, and skills in the best way possible and get ahead of others by giving that little extra. Live by a higher standard and pay attention to the details that really do make the difference. Excellence is not difficult – simply decide right now to give it your best shot – and you will be amazed with what life gives you back.





3. Steve Jobs said: “The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.”



I’ve got it down to four words: “Do what you love.” Seek out an occupation that gives you a sense of meaning, direction and satisfaction in life. Having a sense of purpose and striving towards goals gives life meaning, direction and satisfaction. It not only contributes to health and longevity, but also makes you feel better in difficult times. Do you jump out of bed on Monday mornings and look forward to the work week? If the answer is ‘no’ keep looking, you’ll know when you find it.




4. Steve Jobs said: “You know, we don’t grow most of the food we eat. We wear clothes other people make. We speak a language that other people developed. We use a mathematics that other people evolved… I mean, we’re constantly taking things. It’s a wonderful, ecstatic feeling to create something that puts it back in the pool of human experience and knowledge.”

Live in a way that is ethically responsible. Try to make a difference in this world and contribute to the higher good. You’ll find it gives more meaning to your life and it’s a great antidote to boredom. There is always so much to be done. And talk to others about what you are doing. Don’t preach or be self-righteous, or fanatical about it, that just puts people off, but at the same time, don’t be shy about setting an example, and use opportunities that arise to let others know what you are doing.





5. Steve Jobs said: “There’s a phrase in Buddhism, ‘Beginner’s mind.’ It’s wonderful to have a beginner’s mind.”



It is the kind of mind that can see things as they are, which step by step and in a flash can realize the original nature of everything. Beginner’s mind is Zen practice in action. It is the mind that is innocent of preconceptions and expectations, judgments and prejudices. Think of beginner’s mind as the mind that faces life like a small child, full of curiosity and wonder and amazement.




6. Steve Jobs said: “We think basically you watch television to turn your brain off, and you work on your computer when you want to turn your brain on.”



Reams of academic studies over the decades have amply confirmed television’s pernicious mental and moral influences. And most TV watchers know that their habit is mind-numbing and wasteful, but still spend most of their time in front of that box. So turn your TV off and save some brain cells. But be cautious, you can turn your brain off by using a computer also. Try and have an intelligent conversation with someone who plays first person shooters for 8 hours a day. Or auto race games, or role-playing games.




7. Steve Jobs said: “I’m the only person I know that’s lost a quarter of a billion dollars in one year…. It’s very character-building.”



Don’t equate making mistakes with being a mistake. There is no such thing as a successful person who has not failed or made mistakes, there are successful people who made mistakes and changed their lives or performance in response to them, and so got it right the next time. They viewed mistakes as warnings rather than signs of hopeless inadequacy. Never making a mistake means never living life to the full.




8. Steve Jobs said: “I would trade all of my technology for an afternoon with Socrates.”



Over the last decade, numerous books featuring lessons from historical figures have appeared on the shelves of bookstores around the world. And Socrates stands with Leonardo da Vinci, Nicholas Copernicus, Charles Darwin and Albert Einstein as a beacon of inspiration for independent thinkers. But he came first. Cicero said of Socrates that, “He called philosophy down from the skies and into the lives of men.” So use Socrates’ principles in your life, your work, your learning, and your relationships. It’s not about Socrates, it’s really about you, and how you can bring more truth, beauty and goodness into your life everyday.




9. Steve Jobs said: “We’re here to put a dent in the universe. Otherwise why else even be here?”



Did you know that you have big things to accomplish in life? And did you know that those big things are getting rather dusty while you pour yourself another cup of coffee, and decide to mull things over rather than do them? We were all born with a gift to give in life, one which informs all of our desires, interests, passions and curiosities. This gift is, in fact, our purpose. And you don’t need permission to decide your own purpose. No boss, teacher, parent, priest or other authority can decide this for you. Just find that unique purpose.





10. Steve Jobs said: “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”




Are you tired of living someone else’s dream? No doubt, its your life and you have every right to spend it in your own individual way without any hurdles or barriers from others. Give yourself a chance to nurture your creative qualities in a fear-free and pressure-free climate. Live a life that YOU choose and be your own boss.




Each lesson might be difficult to integrate into your life at first, but if you ease your way into each lesson, one at a time, you’ll notice an immediate improvement in your overall performance. So go ahead, give them a try.